1. Do you accept Newbies or Novices?

Yes. I most certainly welcome anyone curious about the realm of Bdsm to pursue. However, in order to determine whether or not you and I are a good fit, I ask to meet in a vanilla setting, such as a cafe, to discuss and see if there is a level of compatibility.  Upon meeting, I ask that you be able to have a firm idea of what it is you are looking for, your interests, and to state them concisely, as My time is valuable. There is a tribute fee of $50 for My time that is nonrefundable.

2.  Do you accept same day appointments?

It is seldom that I do have spare time, thus it truly makes it almost inconveniently impossible to grant same day sessions.  I do prefer at least 24 to 48 hours advanced notice. 

3. How can I contact you?

I accept email contact: mistress@maramayhem.com 
I also accept phone consultations via Niteflirt: 1-800-TO-Flirt, extension: 9486-521
Contacting Me via regular phone is limited: I Do Not give out My number until we have established a consistent level of email communication. 

4. When are you available for sessions:

Ideally, I am available Monday through Friday, 9 a.m to Midnight.  Saturdays & Sundays vary, so email Me in advance. 

5. Is the Dungeon Clean, Safe, Discreet?
Where is the Space located?

To the First part of the Question: Yes. Yes. And yes!  For security,  I will not discuss the precise location of the space until a confirmation of a session has been received. I will disclose, however, that the space is centrally located, close to downtown, with plenty of taxis, public transportation, and parking available to meet your travel needs. 

6. How long do You prefer to session?
Do You offer extended/overnight sessions?

I normally prefer our play time together to be anywhere from 60 minutes (minimum) to 48-72 hours, depending on the intricacy of the scene. So yes, I do offer overnight sessions, but they must be planned for in advance and accordingly. 

7. How Much is Your Tribute Rate? 

My tribute rate starts at $275. Each additional hour is 200. More intricate or detailed sessions (such as latex wardrobe or medical-fetish play) start at 300. Overnight sessions start at $1000. 

8. Do You Travel? Will You come to my city?

I do love to travel and see different cities.  If you cannot make the trek to Chicago, but are sincere about My visiting your town, you should email Me with specifics of where you are located. From time to time, I will make travel announcements, so stay tuned. 

10. Can I be Your Personal Servant/Slave?

No. Such a relationship is not developed instantaneously.  I am NOT  looking for a live-in, 24/7 piece of property.  To be held in even a smidgen of such regard, you must have sessioned with Me for a generous period of time, consistently. Such a role and relationship is developed by regular, professionally sessioning.  Once you have proven yourself worthy of such a role and the tasks that are entailed by that role, I may consider. But, continual nagging and asking will go ignored, if not severe our ties. 

11. Can I see You Naked/Topless?

You wish!  Absolutely Not! I don't offer sessions in the Nude, so don't even ask!

12. Do You require deposits?

For lengthier appointments, I require a deposit. Cancellations, general flakiness and repeated re-scheduling will incur a deposit.  No-calls/no-shows will be added to My Blacklist, and will not be allowed to session with Me.

13. Do you accept Outfit/Ensemble Requests?
Can I bring you an outfit?

I welcome you to request a certain outfit ideas, which I will try to cater to the best that I can. You are more than welcome to give Me a gift of an outfit, but you should inquire about My size and measurements beforehand, just be safe.

14. What is Your Shoe Size? Dress Size? Measurements?
Favourite Colours?

I wear either a 7 or a 7.5 in shoes. 
My dress size is Extra Small or Small, size 3/4.
My Corset Measurement is 20-22.
My Favourite colours are in combinations of red & black, purple and black, or pink and black. 
See My wishlists page for ideas if you long to spoil Me. 

15. Do You offer Double Sessions with other Dominatrixes?

Yes! I enjoy tormenting My victims with other Mistresses present, playing along. Please take a look at My links page to see whom I am available to session with.